“Your assuming that every gay male must receive penetration from their male partner to be gay!”

That’s not what I said, but since you brought it up, isn’t a willing male who is recieving sexual penetration from another male considered gay? Isn’t that pretty much the definition?

Also, I didn’t assume, I specified a common action between gay men, and by your own discription it still sounds like it’s still inside, even if it’s in a different orfice. Still, what’s the point of proclaiming to the world about something one is supposedly born with, it’s like me putting a sign on my car about my size 12 feet, who really cares?

@tiki, my mistake, I should have said “Tiki, I don’t know about you but …”. Your are right though tiki, I have no idea why some people seem to desire violence for something that doesn’t really affect them.